I’ve got a question for you. Have you ever felt like life is way more complicated than it needs to be? Like there’s this constant hum of frustration, doubt, and overwhelm buzzing in the background of your mind, no matter how successful you are on paper?
You know that feeling—it’s like static in the attic.
Imagine climbing up to your attic to find something important, but the lights are flickering, and there’s an old radio crackling with static that you just can’t turn off. You know the answers you need are somewhere in that mess, but the noise makes it nearly impossible to think straight.
That static? It’s the endless chatter of our thoughts, the “What ifs,” and the “I should have’s,” and the “Why isn’t this working?”
It’s not your circumstances creating that noise; it’s how your mind interprets them.
The attic may feel chaotic, but here’s the good news: underneath all that static, your mind is naturally calm and clear. You just need to see how to tune into it.
In a recent interview with Nel Varenas of SoCal Digital Studio, I dove into this idea. I shared how I help my clients get rid of that static so they can live and work from a place of clarity and flow. If you haven’t seen it yet, you can check it out here by clicking on the picture:
But let me give you the highlights – and even expand on them a little – in a way that might just shift your perspective RIGHT NOW.
Play the party game BeanBoozled with me, will you? Here’s how it works: each jellybean in the jar has a twin that looks exactly the same, but the flavors are completely different.
Pick one, and you might get something like “Juicy Pear,” but its twin? “Booger.” Or maybe it’s “Toasted Marshmallow” versus “Stinky Bug.” It’s a gamble every time, and when you bite into one of the bad ones, the taste can be downright awful.
That happens when we’re caught up in our own stressful thinking. We get stuck chewing on the dirt bean of worry, frustration, or self-doubt and forget that there’s a whole jar of better options sitting right in front of us.
The secret? You don’t need to fix the lousy jellybean. No need to analyze it or look at its bad-tasting components under a microscope. Just stop chewing on it.
And when your mind naturally settles, it’s like grabbing one of the good ones—effortlessly. Sweet, right?
The jelly-bean analogy not working for you? Here’s another one.
Let’s talk about wisdom for a second—that quiet, inner knowing that always seems to have your back. Imagine trying to stream a movie, but instead of connecting to Wi-Fi, you’re burning through your cellular data, getting spotty service, and paying the price for it.
That’s what happens when you try to run your business or life relying solely on willpower, hustle, and overthinking.
But when you’re connected to your inner wisdom—your personal “Wi-Fi”—everything runs smoother. Ideas flow, decisions feel clear, and you’re not draining yourself trying to “make things happen.”
You’re tapping into a stronger, steadier signal that is always available when the static does not bog you down.
Here’s the truth I shared in that interview: You already have everything you need to create an extraordinary life.
Beneath the noise, beneath the jellybeans (bad or good), and beneath the search for the perfect strategy is you. Your calm, resourceful, wise self is always there, ready to guide you the moment you stop trying to “fix” things and start listening.
That’s why my coaching isn’t about giving you another to-do list or pushing you to work harder. It’s about helping you reconnect to that deeper part of yourself—the part that’s already got this.
And trust me, when you’re living from that space, everything changes: your business, relationships, and even how you feel about ordinary Tuesday mornings.
If any of this resonates with you, I invite you to take a moment to pause. What would it feel like to turn off the static, stop chewing the dirt-flavored jellybean, and connect to your own inner Wi-Fi?
Imagine the freedom of living from your deepest wisdom and true self, instead of trying to “get it all right” from the chaotic attic of your mind.
You don’t have to imagine for long. Book a complimentary coaching call with me and let’s explore how this perspective can shift everything for you.